from www.HealthNewsDigest.com – A recent study reported that every 39 seconds a new pornographic video is being made.

There are 1.5 billion pornographic Internet downloads a month. Between the years 2005 and 2006 the pornography business increased by almost one billion dollars. It is well into the billions now.

Addiction to Internet pornography is a growing problem in the U.S and almost everywhere in the world due to the ever increasing ease of being on the Internet and the large amount of porn sights available. Each year the pornography industry grows by millions of dollars. If you are reading this thinking it affects others but not you, don’t be so sure. Our husbands, wives and children may be watching pornography. Not only may your own family be watching it, but your parents, brothers, and sisters may be too. In fact it is so insidious, available, and addictive that by the time you begin to wonder if your partner’s interest in the computer late at night is becoming an addiction it may be too late.

Trying to find out what causes a porn addiction is as puzzling as trying to find out who is susceptible. There are some basic questions you may want to ask yourself to assess if you or someone you love is addicted to porn:

Is sex or thoughts of watching sex interfering with your life, work, or your relationships? Do you find yourself withdrawing from your partner so you can be alone to watch porn?

Is it becoming more difficult to desire your partner due to watching porn?
Do you feel disconnected from your partner due to watching porn?
Porn affects all genders, income brackets and sexual orientations. Viewing pornography on the Internet can happen at home, work, in the car, at a hotel, on an airplane or anywhere. Many people who are addicted to pornography have had dysfunctional families and may have suffered abuse verbally, physically or sexually. Before you point the finger and think only men have this problem let me reassure you that women have it too. In the last count, men outnumbered women but women were still a sizeable number. It parallels the number of women who struggle with alcohol/and or drug addictions.

Feelings of shame (staying up in the wee hours masturbating to pictures or going out to meet a stranger to have sex), secrecy (feeling you must keep this behavior secret to avoid trouble with your spouse or job), and sometimes abuse (in your efforts to deny the addiction you can get verbally and physically abusive with your spouse) are the emotions that eventually destroy your relationship. The addict cannot stop and they risk everything they once loved or cared about. They run huge debt on their credit cards (although many of the web sites are free, meeting up with the stranger is not), they suffer from lack of sleep, and they become increasingly irritable and withdraw from their spouse and or family.

How do we treat a porn addiction? Addiction to pornography is treated as a psychological addiction. There has to be an underlying reason for one’s addiction. The 12 Step Recovery Institute adopts a 12 Step Program from the Drug/Alcohol Program to be used for addiction to pornography. Porn addiction programs are successful, but according to Sneider who has worked extensively in this area the most important predictor of relapse after treatment is the failure of the partner to be involved in the treatment program. We could prevent pornography addiction if we could educate couples in regards to the dangers of pornography—what to look for, how to prevent it, and how to begin the tough conversation when you are suspicious.

Experts say 85% of women were correct when they had a “gut feeling” their lover was cheating (pornography is another form of cheating), 50% of men were correct when they had a “gut feeling” their lover was cheating. One thing is for certain, if we continue to say “it will never happen to me” we will ensure the growth of pornography. Currently approximately 12% of total web sites available on the Internet are porn related. How many more families are we willing to sacrifice?