The War of the Del Toro’s over green cards and other cool stuff goes to the next level with the following affidavits.
> posted by Martin 666 on www.xxxporntalk.com: I, Csaba Marton declare: 1. I am the Respondent in this action, and make this declaration in support of my opposition to Petitioner’s motion for an order of nullity based on alleged fraud, and for attorney’s fees and costs.
2. Actually, I filed for dissolution first against Ms. Haley on June 17, 2006. She was not served until July 16, 2006 because I could not find her.
3. In general, my marriage to Ms. Haley was legitimate and not based on fraud.
4. On April 17, 2005 I met Ms. Haley. I was a director of, and she was an actress in an adult movie. We were interested in each other, and dated for about five months before I moved in with her in September 2005. At that time she lived in a one-bedroom apartment at 11125, Acama Street, North Hollywood, California. Around the time we moved in together, we opened a joint bank account. A true and correct copy of a check from that account is attached as Ex. 2.
5. From the beginning, I was always honest with her about my immigration status. I never told her I was here legally. I told her that I had overstayed my visa, and was taking steps to become a U.S. citizen. It was our mutual decision to get married, and we did so on October 15, 2005. I never rushed Ms. Haley into getting married, it was by mutual decision because we wanted to. Attached as Ex. 3 is a photograph of me and Ms. Haley that was shot in our apartment the day after we were married.
6. Ms. Haley and I discussed the marriage well before it took place. We agreed that we were getting married for love, but agreed to sign a premarital agreement. We both went to a paralegal service and had an agreement prepared which we signed on October 7, 2005. A true and correct copy is attached as Ex. 4.
7. Our marriage was consummated numerous times and there is no issue about that.
8. I have reviewed Ms. Haley’s declaration and it is not entirely correct. Paragraph 12 of her declaration is true, though we both decided to get married at the beach as a romantic gesture. Paragraph 13 is not correct because we lived together in her apartment for at least one month before we got married.
9. Our marriage ended in April 2006, six months after we were married on October 15, 2005 because of Ms. Haley’s addiction to painkillers and other drugs. When I became aware of her addiction, I encouraged her to attend meetings at Narcotic Anonymous (“NA”). Paragraph 17 of her declaration is not correct. She states we separated November 23, 2005. Actually, we put the utilities in the apartment in both our names in February 2006 and attended a meeting together at the INS office on March 7, 2006. Based on our meeting with an INS officer I was given a two year green card.
10. We did live as a married couple for six months. I did not have a “girlfriend” during this time. I did remain friends with a Ms. Miklos who is also Hungarian and a friend from long ago.
11. The assertions in paragraph 22 of Ms. Haley’s declaration are not true. She is quoting from Hungarian tabloids a bunch of a nonsense that was written about me and my ex-wife, Sarolta Zaltnay. Ms. Zaltnay was (and still is) an actress, singer, and celebrity in Hungary. The tabloids there (as in the U.S.) frequently write lies and other sensational nonsense about celebrities to sell magazines. None of it is true.
12. If sworn as a witness, I could and would competently testify to the forth going.
13. I declare under the penalty of purjury under the laws of the State of California that the foregoing is true and correct.
> martin 666 posts on XPT: Haley Paige’s affidavit against Csaba Marton [Martin del Toro]
AFFIDAVIT
Declaration of Maryam Irene Haley
I, Maryam Haley, make oath and declare as follows: My name is Maryam Irene Haley.
I was born on December 30, 1981 and am a citizen of the United States of America.
I met Csaba Marton, a Hungarian-born citizen, in May 2005 at an adult movie shoot where he worked as a cameraman. He seemed to take a particular liking to me and continued to hire me for more work.
On my third shoot, he asked me out on a date. After three weeks of dating and intimate relations, he brought up the subject of marriage. He asked, “What do you think about marriage? Do you think about getting married? What do you think about us getting married?” At that time I believed I was in love and I had never fallen in love so quickly before. He insisted that he would not judge me for my job, saying, “I don’t care about you doing porn. It’s not a big deal if you do black guys, do gays or gangbangs”. I had been depressed since I felt that no one could ever love me if they knew about my occupation. I was prepared to accept his marriage proposal and grew more attracted to him as I began to trust and love him wholeheartedly.
During our period of courtship, I was not aware of Csaba’s illegal alien status as he never gave me any indication of his immigration problems. He persuaded me to believe he was acting on pure love and our relations would have no bearing on his immigration proceedings. He told me that he was famous in Hungary and was in good standing with U.S. immigration. He said he was not an illegal alien and had only a few more months to go before he would receive his greencard.
I accepted his marriage proposal with good faith and sincerely believed we would spend our lives together in every aspect that holy matrimony ordinarily offers. I told my friends I was in love as Csaba treated me like a princess, from the way he spoke to me to how he acted around me. He told me he had never met anymore more beautiful and for the first time in my life, I felt like a teenager in love. However, Csaba told me that I shouldn’t tell anyone we were dating and contemplating marriage. He didn’t want anyone to know about his personal business.
I respected his decision since I wanted to be loved and craved his affection. Growing up, I had never received much love or affection. I was molested by an uncle, which my parents knew about but never did anything. At school, I raped consistently by gang members. As a result of these traumatic experiences, I went into counseling for two months. In addition, my last boyfriend prior to Csaba was verbally, emotionally, mentally and physically abusive, only compounding my psychological distress.
During our dating period, he became very controlling, demanding to know who my friends were and whom I went out with. He did not like my friend Stephanie very much because she saw his possessive characteristics. In turn, he introduced me to his friends, essentially the people in the adult entertainment industry. A select few people knew that I was his girlfriend but most people did not even realize we were dating. I respected his request for privacy even though gossip of our relationship would not have affected our work.
Csaba told me he had been married before to a famous Hungarian singer (Sarolta Zalatnay) and that the marriage ended approximately four to five years ago. He said he had been living in the U.S. for seven years.
When we had dated for about two and a half months, Csaba told me suddenly something had happened and we needed to get married within one month; otherwise, we would have to wait over two years to get married. When I questioned him for specific reasons, he explained it as merely a “timing thing”. Getting married would actually be detrimental to his greencard application, he told me, but he was still willing to take that risk and marry me. I had no knowledge of immigration regulations and trusted him wholeheartedly. I had no reason not to trust him since at that time, he had never lied to me (to my knowledge). He asked me to find someone convenient to marry us as soon as possible as he kept saying, “I can’t wait to be your husband”. At that point, I wanted to be his wife and believed that at some time in the near future, we would have a big celebration with family and friends. He instructed me not to tell anyone of our plans since he wanted the big affair to be perceived as the real thing. In addition, he planned to market it as the first pornographic wedding movie. When I did tell my parents and a few close friends, Csaba became extremely upset and ordered me not to tell anyone else.
On October 15, 2005, driving to Santa Monica, Csaba turned to me and said, “Let’s get married right now on the beach. Wouldn’t that be romantic?” I said, “yes” and was extremely happy about his idea. We contacted the Los Angeles marriage office and promptly bought wedding rings. Five hours later, with his cousin Tibor as witness and wearing jeans, sweatshirts and yellow sweats, we were married on Santa Monica beach by Minister Chris Robinson. Pictures of the wedding ceremony were taken by Tibor.
Our marriage was not consummated that evening. Csaba dropped me off at my apartment and told me he still had video editing to work on at his studio. I was devastated since in my mind I felt like this night should have been special. However, I could not say anything since I feared making him upset and angry.
The following day, he arrived at my place with all of his possessions (computer, clothes, dog, desk, DVDs, etc). Since my apartment consists only of 600 sq. feet, he took me to look at houses. Upon deciding on a house, he assured me he had enough money for the down payment. However, later on, he told me he wanted to save more money and buy a better house so we held off from purchasing a larger place.
We had signed a prenuptial agreement one week prior to our marriage to protect our assets. Upon moving into my apartment, Csaba never paid any of the bills. He did loan me money on two occasions to help with rent but I paid him back promptly. He said he was struggling with finances as he was still in debt and paying for his car. However, I genuinely believed our relationship was moving along as well as could be expected.
At this time, I was suffering from an addiction to painkillers that my doctor had prescribed. Csaba knew about my addiction and began giving me painkillers to keep my withdrawal symptoms away. I was taking painkillers to numb myself for video shoots and I did not know how to treat my addiction. Csaba told me that one of his friends had died from a painkiller overdose and he was now concerned about me.
The night before Thanksgiving, on November 23, 2005, Csaba met with a painkiller doctor/specialist and returned home to tell me that the doctor thought it would be better if I recover from my addiction alone. I was completed shocked and devastated at this announcement. One hour prior to this, with his knowledge, I had made plans to visit my mother and her new boyfriend for the first time to celebrate Thanksgiving in San Diego. He began moving most of his belongings out of the apartment that night and finished the day after while I was at work. We had lived together as a married couple for only a little more than a month before he announced his decision to move out.
During this time we had minimal contact and no intimate relations. I followed through with my sobriety plans in his absence. I wanted to be with him but he constantly excused himself as “unavailable”. I began to feel that he did not want me to sober up so that he would always have a reason to stay away and be able to make me feel guilty. He told me he had moved to his studios while we were separated.
I made plans for Christmas day in that he would come to my place and celebrate with since I did not think he had family in the area. I bought presents and wrapped them under the tree in anticipation of his visit. However, he did not show up and or even call for the week following Christmas. A week later, in January 2006, Csaba called to say that he was staying with his stepbrother Gabor who was going through a divorce. He explained Gabor was depressed and they had gone to Vegas for a week.
In February 2006, Csaba told me that we had to go to the INS for the “little interview”. He put on his best behavior during this time, asking for us to hang out and be friends again. He asked me, “Can I do anything for you? Let’s hang out and be pals”. However, there was still no intimacy between us. We have not shared a common residence since November 23, 2005 when Csaba moved out.
At that time, I was in denial and still hoped our marriage would be able to work. I was too scared to confront the truth as I was already emotionally and mentally devastated by his absence. I needed denial to stay sober as I struggled both with my addiction and my marriage. During my state of emotional distress and vulnerability, I was deceived by his many promises of reconciliation as he led me to believe that we may be able to save our marriage. With this falsehood, Csaba coerced me to agree to accompany him to his INS interview. At that time, I still held faith in our marital relations and believed our marriage continued to stand on authentic grounds of love and commitment.
We met with an attorney named Bernard Lurie a few weeks prior to the interview to be advised on what documents we needed. The lawyer said the immigration officials would not ask me any questions.
Prior to the interview date, Csaba called me while crying that he needed my help with taking more realistic wedding photos. Believing this would be an opportunity to spend time together and rekindle our love, I went along with his idea. I wanted to do everything right so he would love me again. The pictures were taken by his friend Kenny, depicting us in more traditional wedding garb from the waist up. We wore jeans which were not shown in the photos and I donned a fake “wedding veil” purchased from a costume store. We also took a picture at a nearby Starbucks where Csaba pretended to know someone at the restaurant Jerry’s Deli and persuaded this “friend” to take a picture with us “newlyweds”. He wanted to use this picture as evidence that he was introducing me to his friends as his wife.
I was persuaded to remain silent on the above matter as he convinced me I would face grave legal consequences if his interview did not proceed well since I was bound to him by marital relations. I had no knowledge of immigration regulations and feared his threats to be true.
The interview took place in February or March 2006 and we were accompanied by our lawyer. At the interview, Csaba brought our marriage certificate, joint bill, joint bank statement (Washington Mutual), photo album with the fake photos mentioned above, false wedding announcement cards, and false congratulation cards.
After the interview, I did not hear from Csaba for a month. I had been sober for almost six months by that time; yet he showed no intentions of resuming our relationship. Realizing that he was not returning, I was very upset and called him in mid-April to ask if our relationship was strictly for his immigration purposes. He replied, “I never lied to you. I have documents to prove that I was a legal citizen and that by marrying you, it made me harder to stay in the country”. I asked for copies of the documents but he refused to hand them over to me. Instead, Csaba offered me money if I would not seek divorce and keep silent on his immigration matters. I refused his monetary offer and since then, we have not had any contact or direct communication.
I have only now began to realize that my marriage was a complete sham, initiated and planned by Csaba solely for his immigration purposes. He never had any intention of staying in the marriage and saw our relations solely as a means to procure a permanent residency. There was no marital faithfulness as during our relationship, he secretly kept in contact with his previous Hungarian-born girlfriend who had obtained her own permanent residency through marriage to a U.S. citizen. Unbeknownst to me, Csaba designed our relationship to culminate in marriage and ultimately, his attainment of permanent residency in the U.S. In retrospect, I am greatly distressed by the manner in which I have been deceived and lied to.
I now realize the extreme depths to which my marriage was based on fraud and deception. My husband was never the person he portrayed himself to be as he lied about his immigration status and his Hungarian ties. I learned recently through an article printed on Transition Online, a European news website, that my husband was charged with fraud alongside his ex-wife in Hungary. The article states that he moved out to Los Angeles and in 2002, informed Hungarian authorities that he had a “medical condition” preventing him from returning to his home country to stand trial. From the day I met Csaba, he has never mentioned this part of his past as he gave all indications of a clean record. He never discussed this as a possible reason for his urgency to obtain permanent residency in the United States.
I am submitting to the U.S. Immigration Services this affidavit and supporting documentation for proper investigation in the validity of Csaba’s greencard. As painful as the experience has been for me, I realize this is no mere marital dispute or dissolution of marriage. Rather, in light of the fact that Csaba designed this marriage from the onset to obtain his permanent residency, his actions would constitute a serious violation of U.S. immigration and criminal laws.
I am deeply distressed that I was unknowingly exploited by my husband for my U.S. citizenship status. Nevertheless, I still firmly believe in the principles and values of the United States and feel bound by my duties as an American citizen to present this before the proper authorities for investigative action.
I, Maryam Haley, hereby declare under penalty of perjury under the laws of the United States of America that the foregoing contents of this affidavit are true and correct to the best of my knowledge, information and belief.