Toronto, Canada- Unlike a few porn “legends” I know who can’t be bothered to return phone calls, Paris, a Canadian newcomer to the adult industry, promised to call 1 PM, and 1 PM it was on the dot.
The hot ticket from Toronto, Paris has caused a stir on the Internet with her website www.playwithparis.com to the point where she and Vivid have been talking contract.
In the meantime, Paris will be at AEE in January where she’ll be signing at Michael Fattorosi’s www.adultbizlaw.com booth.
Paris explains how she got involved in all this, where she didn’t think school was for her any more.
“I’d be looking out the window and say to myself I’m bored and this isn’t really challenging. And I had received this offer about modeling. Not necessarily nude modeling. I said, okay, let’s do it.”
“Then I took a semester off to do online courses while I was busy trying to start up my website,” Paris continues. “When the website finally launched, the public school I was going to at the time [in Canada] expelled me and said I wasn’t allowed to go to any school, that I was totally unacceptable. It was a topless website but you’d only find that if you were in the members section. Otherwise you wouldn’t see any nudity.”
The suspicion is someone had to rat her out, but Paris doesn’t know who it was.
“This is like when you Google porn,” I tell her. “You get one of these big, scandalous website stories.”
Asked if she received any press on that story, Paris said she probably had.
“I can’t remember now because I was busy doing my website and looking for lawyers.”
Paris was told by the school she’d be allowed to come back if she closed her website down.
“I said no way, buddy, it’s not going to close,” she laughs. “Then they told me I can’t go to this school or any other school. They banned me from all high schools. And they sent my picture around to other schools telling them to watch out. They said school, obviously, was not for me. Being a troublemaker, I like doing things that are scandalous. And I guess in my town it was scandalous.”
Paris mentions that she’s an only child from a conservative family and had always gone to private schools.
“Then I begged to go to a regular high school so that I actually could have some fun,” she relates. “I was so sheltered and that’s another reason why I think I became rebellious. Oppression breeds perversion, you know what I mean?”
Paris also felt that if she didn’t graduate high school, her parents who were pretty strict about school “for sure” would have kicked her out.
“And I’d be living in a box.”
After she had been kicked out of public school, Paris found yet another private school that was willing to look the other way for a thousand bucks a credit.
“So they’re extorting money from you?”
“Yeah, basically,” she replies. “I told them I’m not going to be able to be here all the time but I still want to graduate from high school because that’s cheesy if you don’t. And I didn’t want to be some lowlife.
“So I ended up going to this private school and I graduated. Then I rubbed it into this public school’s face that I graduated because they didn’t want me to graduate and send a message to other kids that if you get involved with porn, you won’t be able to get an education and everyone will shun you. They were assholes like that. Now I go to the University and work on my website which has done very well because of the scandal.”
Paris is majoring in Social Sciences.
“I want to become a really good speaker and I want to interact with people and be able to sell ice cubes to Eskimos,” she says. “I think that’s what Social Studies basically does- it teaches you about people and their behavior.”
At the time she was thinking about starting her website, Paris came across a guy who was doing free sites.
“He said why don’t we do a website. So we both took a chance on each other. He took a chance on me that I’d be reliable. I took a chance on him that he’d actually pay me.”
Eventually Paris was contacted by a larger website, SpunkyCash.
“The bought my website from my original webmaster,” she states. “And I’ve been working with them ever since. And ever since webcamming got really big, I wanted to focus more of my time on having a webcam site. I’ve been working on other webcam sites and saw that it does really well. I’m like, shit, let me start my own solo girl webcam site and that’s what I’m doing right now.” [ www.camwithparis.com ]
Up to this point Paris has only been doing softcore but got the idea that maybe she could work with Vivid.
“I got an offer from them recently and I’m deciding whether to take it or not,” she says.
Asked how that came about, Paris comments, “I guess when you’re online your pictures are everywhere just because of free sites. So someone who works for VividCash had seen my pictures. We started talking. He’s like let me see if I can send your pictures on to Steven [Steve Hirsch], whatever, and we’ll see what they say.
“Then they wanted to have a meeting. I went in for a meeting, and they wanted to have a test photo shoot to see how I’d look with hair and makeup done. They gave me an offer a couple of days later. I moved really quickly. It was one day I go from this solo girl- not even doing masturbation on the website- and all of a sudden I get this offer from a big time porn company saying hey, you want to be a porn star.”
According to Paris, were she to choose to become a Vivid girl, she’d want to give that her 110%.
“I want to be able to live there and have every opportunity to do press and be available for them.”
But with her still being active at the University and doing her website, Paris says she wants to be sure she can tie up all loose ends before taking the big step.
If she had to put school on the back burner, Paris rationalizes thusly: “University doesn’t really teach you trades, obviously, but it teaches you how to learn. And I think that’s all the experience I’ve had in the real world so far. I think I’ve already taught myself how to learn because that’s basically where University is out. It doesn’t tell you how to run a business. It tells you how to think outside the box.”
“School right now isn’t that interesting for me and I think that in a couple of years I’d eventually wind up doing something else that has nothing to do with my majors.”
Besides being an only child, Paris mentions that she’s a Scorpio.
“Your parents had to keep you on a really short leash,” I tell her.
“Because you’ll bite right through that leash being a Scorpio. Are you a woman bent on revenge if a guy pisses you off?”
“For sure,” is her quick reply.
“Would you go into his bedroom closet and cut off the arms of all of his suits to get back at him?” I tell Paris I was with a Scorpio who was like that.
“I’d get crazy but not insane asylum crazy,” Paris laughs. “I’ll try to get you where it hurts. Like cutting off the sleeve of your shirt? Alright, that sucks. But, fuck, you could buy a new shirt. If I really wanted to hurt you, I would go for where it actually hurts and undo all your bank accounts, so when I cut off that shirt, you’d be – fuck- I have no money. I’m smarter that way.”
Her sex life growing up was based on the fact that she attended private school most of her adolescence.
“I really didn’t know anything about boys,” she states, “Then when grade nine came around I was like, shit, I want to be able to hang around with friends instead of doing homework. I begged to go to a public school and was introduced to boys. That’s when the problems started. Within the first two months I realized what it’s like to be sexually active. So I was a bit of a slut when I was younger. I won’t lie.”
Her first sexual person [she was either 14 or 15] was when her mother came home early and caught her in the middle of it.
“It wasn’t a boyfriend- he was probably someone else’s boyfriend at the time,” Paris laughs. “He had called me – what are you doing? I’m like, nothing. I’m home alone and my mom’s at dance class or something. Five minutes later I hear my doorbell ring. It was him. He showed up at my house and we went up to my bedroom. We started messing around. All of a sudden from my window I saw my mom’s lights from her car pulling into the garage. I go, oh shit, my mom’s home!
“I took all his clothes and shoes and threw them out the back door. Seriously, that’s how it was. I was so nervous that I’d be sent off to reform school because my parents had no problem with threatening that in the past. Then my mom decided to salt the back porch and she saw him. She’s like what are you doing here? Oh, I just came to visit…she goes what are you two doing? And it was really awkward after that. I think she knew but was a little shocked.”
“Did you guys actually get it on before your mom came home?”
“We were caught in the middle of it- it was literally like putting dick in pussy and me seeing the lights of my mom’s car. Oh fuck! I remember my heart going into my throat and going, oh shit, we’re going to die.”
“Most Scorpio women, I find, like anal, how about you?”
“Yeah, I like it- for sure,” Paris answers. “I think that timing is everything, that if you’re not in the mood, and if you’re having a bad day, obviously you’re not going to be in a great mood to get fucked in your ass.
“But I think that if you’re super horny and if it’s right after your period, that’s the best time for me. And a lot of anal lube, too.”
The first, or one of the first times she tried it, Paris was in the backseat of a guy’s car.
“He was, like, let me do it- I said, okay, let’s try it! When you first have sex you try to do it everywhere because it’s so new and it’s so taboo. Oh shit, this is fun!”
Paris remembers another guy from high school who would pick her up in his car, and they’d go somewhere to fuck.
“Then we’d do it on lunch break then when I’d come home- you just try to do it all the time. When you’re 15, you’re the horniest you’ve ever been. That’s how I’ve been. Now that I’m older I have to do crazier things.”
Along the way she’s had a couple of serious relationships.
“But I can’t say I’ve been faithful in them,” she admits. “I think of it like this- if you have the opportunity to fuck someone hotter than me, go ahead. I want you to do it. If someone like Angelina Jolie comes walking around and you have the opportunity to fuck her, fuck her. Don’t miss out. Have fun.
“If you’re on vacation and you see some hot chick, go fuck her. Don’t be, like, oh, but what about…? Love is totally different than sex and I think a lot of people get that confused and they think, oh, if you love me, you give your body to me and your soul to me…you know what? I’m 20 years old. I’m not about to go get married. I want to experience 500 more people down the road.”
Paris, however, can’t think of any immediate fantasies she’d like to achieve.
“I always ask other people that question,” she relates. “Then I try to do theirs because I’ve done so many of my own. I think some of my fantasies would scare people and I don’t want them to be freaked out.”
When asked to relate one of them, Paris hesitates then talks about how she’d like to be raped by a stalker.
“I love horror movies, so it’s dark out and I’m walking to my cat,” she describes.
“I’m shuffling with my keys and looking around. Someone’s following me- I don’t know who it is. All of a sudden I get to my car and drop my keys. I turn around and there’s this guy. He’s masked and wanting to hurt me or rape me, what not. He opens my car and throws me down. He rips my clothes off and has this knife. He goes don’t move, just let me do what I want. He basically rapes me but I kind of like it. I know I shouldn’t be joking because people get raped every day. It’s a horrible thing but that’s one of my fantasies!”
Among horror movies, Paris likes the Nightmare on Elm Street series.
“When I was really younger, Chucky used to creep me out,” she adds. “I don’t know why. Maybe it’s because I had a Chucky doll in my house. I was always thinking maybe, oh shit, this thing is going to come after me. But there’s so many films. I like the older ones just because they’re so cheesy. But I also like the Rob Zombie ones, too. They’re gore and, holy shit, that’s SICK!!!”
All of these exhausting revelations are interesting considering the fact that until now, Paris has operated a softcore site.
“That’s because I want to have a long shelf life,” she comments. “I think that’s once you’ve done anal and sex and everything on camera- what more is there for you to do? It narrows your list of things you can come out with where people go, wow, I’ve never seen that before.”
“I think there’s no problem with moving slow in this industry at all,” she continues. “It’s done very well for me, moving at the pace I have. I can save all of that for when I’m 24. I don’t have to rush into all of that, now.”
Asked how many members her website has, Paris comments, “It really doesn’t work by members. It works by how many sales you get per day and how many re-bills. My webmaster takes care of all that stuff. All I know is checking my traffic by Alexa but even that’s not totally accurate. I don’t have a lot of members but I know I’ve had members who have been there from the very beginning- two years. Solo girls- like this site- get more one on one interaction with guys usually thinking oh, this is my Internet girlfriend and they usually end up staying forever. That’s like a big thing with the solo girls.”
Her parents are very aware of what she’s doing but there wasn’t an uproar when she broke the news.
“To tell you the truth I thought it was going to be so much worse than from what it was,” Paris states. “I thought it was going to be, here I am- I’ll have to pack up all my shit in garbage bags and leave and be sent off to an island in the middle of nowhere. But when you keep things from people you end up moving away from them and even though my parents are very conservative, I think if you hide things from them, you end up moving away.
“And we were always the kind that, at dinner, we talked. They kind of saw that I was drifting away for the past year. And I think they wanted me to come back. I am their only child and I think that gives me a one-up. Because as I get older they want their child in their life. Of course they do. They love me unconditionally. I would probably kill someone and they’d still love me.”
“I basically gave them two options: you can love me and have me in your life; or you can not like what I do and make that a problem. And I won’t be in your life. It’s totally up to you guys. I knew it was going to come down to that.”
“Either accept it or we can be one of those Jerry Springer families on TV.”
With her signing at AEE, Paris isn’t new to conventions.
“I go to almost every convention that I possibly can,” she says. “I love networking and I like seeing people and shooting the shit.”
“How did you and Michael Fattorosi connect?”
“I’m doing a show right now where they’re following me around doing a documentary,” she says. “It’s called Web Dreams. We were at a show and I needed a lawyer because I needed one to write me a contract. I needed some advice on the one Vivid gave me, because I’m not going to sign anything without having an attorney look at it. I was recommended to him. He’s very educated and knows this industry. It’s important to have someone who knows as much as he does, on your side.”