from www.nydailynews.com- Lindsay Lohan is publicly showing restraint in her split from Samantha Ronson. And it may be because she has to.

Ronson’s family is pursuing a restraining order against the “Mean Girls” star, according to several reports.

The DJ’s mother, Ann Dexter-Jones, and twin sister, designer Charlotte Ronson, visited the Beverly Hills Police Department on Monday to look into filing the order against Lohan, a police officer confirmed to Us Weekly.

“She does these things to get attention,” said Charlotte told a clerk, per OK! magazine. “She was trying to get into my party this weekend. We had to tell security to keep her out. Then she booked a room at the Chateau Marmont. Her room was right below. … She also followed our brother Mark around.”

Lohan, who is reportedly devastated by the split, had to be restrained by five bodyguards while trying to get into Charlotte’s bash this weekend, where Samantha was DJing. The actress later took to her private Twitter account, accusing Samantha of cheating on her.

Dexter-Jones had more serious allegations.

“[Lindsay] was doing drugs,” she said of the party incident. “And we could not sleep that night at the Chateau. She was complaining about the music and noise coming from upstairs. She was trying to get attention, so that Sam could come down.”

Added Ann: “She cuts herself too. She is a cutter!”

According to Charlotte, Lohan even broke into their hotel room. “She does these acts of public humiliation. It is all for attentio … She was also got physical with Mark.”

Samantha’s family was instructed to file a petition for a restraining order at the Santa Monica courthouse.

Lohan confirmed her split with Samantha to E!, telling the network, “We are taking a brief break so I can focus on myself.”