from www.nypost.com – The wait is finally over: Sandra Bullock will divorce her cheating gearhead husband Jesse James over the tawdry affairs that have rocked their marriage, RadarOnline reported on its Web site this morning.

The site quotes “a source close to the couple,” who says the Oscar-winning actress has made up her mind to divorce James. Yesterday it was reported that she left the home both shared and had no intention of returning.

“She’s had enough,” the source said. “She’s ending the marriage.”

James’ apparent chronic cheating with four — and as many as 11 — women has caused Bullock to cancel various appearances since the scandal broke nearly two weeks ago.

Sources told Radar the scandal has left Bullock feeling like her “life is one big lie.” The site says Bullock has taken steps towards divorce, but did not say what those steps were.

Meanwhile, People.com reported last night that Bullock has no plans to adopt James’ three kids.

Apparently responding to an earlier report, a rep told the site, “There are no plans, nor have there ever been any plans,” for Bullock to adopt Chandler, 15, and Jesse Jr., 12, or Sunny, 6.

On Sunday, the father of the first mistress to go public, Michelle “Bombshell” McGee, defended his daughter and said she thought the couple were estranged.

McGee only realized he was still with Bullock only after spotting the couple together at the Academy Awards, according to the home wrecker’s dad.

“She was under the impression they weren’t seeing each other,” Denny McGee told WJW-TV, a Fox affiliate in Cleveland.

“She felt [betrayed] . . . She felt like she was going to have a relationship and then this happened.”