Connecticut- The young blond mom who seduced her 8-year- old neighbor was playing out her ultimate “fantasy” by engaging in kinky sex trysts with the baby-faced boy, cops said yesterday.

The distraught mother of Tammy Imre’s little “boyfriend” had to be restrained by relatives in Superior Court in Bridgeport as the 29-year-old Stratford suspect was ordered held on $250,000 bail for sex assault.

“It was like a fantasy, and I was the girlfriend, and he was the boyfriend, and someday, we could be in a relationship,” Imre, a former model and aspiring actress, told cops when pressed about her bizarre affair with the boy, a playmate of her 7-year-old daughter.

Cops said they learned about the pair’s alleged sex flings after the boy’s brother found an incriminating note from Imre to her victim.

In it, she writes:

“OK, I’m glad you finally told me why you don’t want me to take those pills. I hope it’s the truth because I don’t want anyone but you! Now tomorrow, it’s supposed to rain. You can come over and do you know what.”

The boy’s mom said she believes that the “pills” Imre is writing about are birth-control pills.

“She ruined my child,” the mom said angrily after court yesterday.

Imre’s mom, Evelyn, admitted that her daughter has “a little mental problem” but declined further comment.

“I love her. She didn’t do anything wrong,” Evelyn Imre insisted.

Tammy Imre – dressed in jeans, black boots and a black leather jacket – remained mum throughout her hearing before being taken to a jail to await another court appearance Nov. 30.

Sickening new details of the woman’s alleged affair with the third-grader showed how the pair’s once-friendly relationship morphed into a horrific case of abuse over possibly as much as the past year.

Tammy Imre said the two began hanging out every day about a year ago, with her taking him and her daughter to the playground and out to eat at fast-food restaurants. She also took the boy to the mall and would buy him toys, his mom said.

Then things turned passionate, Imre said.

“He had a crush on me, and it turned into an obsession – I wanted him to come over just to kiss,” the woman said, according to cops.

At one point, the pair stripped down to their underwear to fool around, she said.

The suspect’s daughter admitted to investigators, “My mother does disgusting things with [the boy].

“I saw him get a razor and shave her private parts,” the girl said.

Even her pals began to question the relationship.

“I would hang out with them, and they acted like boyfriend and girlfriend,” one friend said.

Still, another pal said she didn’t believe the charges.

“[Imre] goes to church every Sunday,” said the woman, who described herself as a professional psychic.

“Tammy loves children. She wouldn’t do anything to hurt them. All she ever did was give the kid a kiss and a hug.”

The boy’s mom said her son is dealing well with the situation.

“He’s just his normal self, playing video games and riding his bike,” she said.

Back story: BRIDGEPORT, Conn. — A woman faces charges of having sex with an 8-year-old boy whom investigators said she considered her boyfriend.

Tammy Imre, 29, was arrested Friday and charged with sexual assault and risk of injury to a minor. A judge set bond at $250,000 Monday.

Police began investigating in September after the third-grader’s mother discovered a letter Imre had written him, in which she tells the boy she doesn’t “want anyone but you.”

She continued: “Now tomorrow it’s supposed to rain, you can come over we can (you know what). Love ya! I want you!”

Police said the boy, the playmate of Imre’s 7-year-old daughter, initially denied doing anything with Imre because he feared getting into trouble. He later told police he had sexual intercourse with her and that she gave him a key to her apartment.

According to an arrest affidavit, Imre told investigators she considered it “like a fantasy and she was the girlfriend and he was the boyfriend and that someday they could end up together in a relationship.”

Evelyn Imre, the suspect’s mother, said her daughter had “a little mental problem,” but declined to elaborate.

“I love her,” Evelyn Imre said. “She didn’t do anything wrong.”

If convicted, Imre could serve more than 20 years in prison. A trial date has not been set.