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Dear Abby: At a recent dinner party, the men and women got into a heated debate about porn. The men said men love porn because it shows women enjoying sex with abandon.

We women protested that women who behave this way in real life are labeled “sluts” by both men and women.

Do men not realize this makes no sense?

— No Fan of Porn

Dear No Fan: Not being an expert on the subject of pornography or why men enjoy it, I posed your question to a recognized expert — Larry Flynt.

His answer is different from the one given by the men at the dinner party. He said that men love porn because men are aroused by the visual. Then he added that women are more turned on by the written word, which is why torrid romance novels are so popular.

P.S. Women who enjoy sex with abandon are not necessarily “sluts.”